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How We Desire

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How We DesireExplore the intricate tapestry of desire with 'How We Desire', a compelling essay that delves into the fluidity of sexuality and love. Written by the esteemed German author, Mithu Sanyal, this trade paperback reflects on the notion that our sexual identities are not fixed but rather evolve with each new experience and relationship. What if you discovered your sexuality not just once, but multiple times throughout your life? 'How We Desire' challenges

Explore the intricate tapestry of desire with 'How We Desire', a compelling essay that delves into the fluidity of sexuality and love. Written by the esteemed German author, Mithu Sanyal, this trade paperback reflects on the notion that our sexual identities are not fixed but rather evolve with each new experience and relationship. What if you discovered your sexuality not just once, but multiple times throughout your life? 'How We Desire' challenges the conventional narratives surrounding gender and sexual orientation, inviting readers to reflect on their personal journeys of desire and identity.

In 256 captivating pages, Sanyal invites us to reconsider societal norms, revealing how we often adopt them as casually as we choose our clothing. This powerful narrative serves as both a personal memoir and a critical exploration of how our desires are shaped by cultural influences and the historical context of sexuality. Emcke’s writing beautifully addresses the often unacknowledged realities of love, longing, and the rebellion against societal constraints.

This essential read not only celebrates the beautiful complexities of human relationships but also critiques longstanding prejudices against alternative sexualities. 'How We Desire' is a must-have for those seeking to navigate their own understanding of desire and identity, making it an invaluable addition to your library on gender and sexuality studies.
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Avid Reader
Los Angeles, US
★★★★★ 5
More comfortable than flats!
Size: 8.5, Color: Bay Fog
I love these sandals! They run true to size, and they’re sooo comfortable. I was worried about getting fakes, but these were the real deal. The color is lovely (light purple). The foot bed can get dirty, but I find them to wash up nicely (by hand, not machine). I have purchased two more colors since! So much better than flats!
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Reviewed in the United States on November 9, 2025
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Siyu
Louisville, US
★★★★★ 5
Comfy dual-mode sandals
Cute, quite comfy to walk in and love the support of the heel strap! It is not as comfy if using in slipper mode because the straps don’t keep your foot tight enough. I am usually a 8.5 but it runs slightly small so I switched up to a 9.
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Anapaula
Whiting, US
★★★★★ 5
Love them
Size: 5.5, Color: Red Pepper
I have gotten so many compliments on these shoes! They’re true to size and comfortable. Because of the material feet might sweat easier if hot but they dry quick. Quality is great and the color looks good, it’s more of a orange/red color. I got a 5.5 size
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Laura
Phoenix, US
★★★★★ 5
Stylist and comfortable!!!
Size: 6, Color: Red Pepper
So comfortable and well made. I’m going to get these in multiple colors.
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Reviewed in the United States on June 11, 2026
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Ally
San Leandro, US
★★★★★ 2
Not sturdy enough for me
Size: 8, Color: Chestnut
Really cute and well made but not sturdy. I rolled my heel within minutes of walking around the house. Ain’t nobody got time for that
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